Adverse Childhood Experiences and the path towards healing. You are not alone.
I share my trials, my victories, and my stories with you in hopes that if any of you were ever touched by childhood abuse or neglect, as I was, you will see yourselves in my experiences and feel strengthened to voice what you had not been able to before. I hope we can learn together why we respond to life through a particular lens, and that there are ways to climb out of this prison of pain, silence, and shame.
My name is Bess Hilpert

Friends, Connection

See the Person your Friends see in you… This past week, I have been thinking about connection. About how important connection is and the gift of long-lasting connection. This past weekend was my fiftieth high school reunion. Can you imagine? Where I could not attend in person, I was blessed with connection to some of… Continue reading Friends, Connection

Seeds For Growth

Trusting, Surrendering, and Cracking Open… “We do not always have to hold onto the ideology that our brokenness defines who we are. That it has the final say.  To fully surrender ourselves to healing we need to go on an extended journey, a trust walk, a gradual letting go, unlearning, and handing over. Experience an… Continue reading Seeds For Growth

Joy Bomb

Each Moment is Precious… I am shifting the focus this week to joy. My heart is full of joy as I get to see one of my sons that I have not seen in eight months. As your children grow and go out on their own, the love you felt for them when they emerged… Continue reading Joy Bomb